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on the bus today....

ooooooohhhhhhhh some peoepl make me so angry, im 23 have 2 kiddies, my eldest is 4 and my youngest is 15 months, i went into town today on the bus my youngest, while my eldest was in school, and i had an old woman making comments on everything i was doing, at one point i was sending a text on my fone and my chloé had thrown her blanket on the floor, and i head her saying look at her on her fone and dosent even notice her babys blanket had fell, excuse me i did notice!

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by chrissy_86 15 October 2009

  • pay no attention, i get it on the bus old people tend to look at my bump and mutter stuff under there breath, i'd have turnt round and said mind your business usually but i just choose to ignore it but i know how it makes you annoyed. just think you know your little ones not come to no harm she's not falling all over the bus so she should mind her own business litle ones drop things all the time in high streets and not always noticed just happens least you picked it up and didn't act completely oblivous to it dropping and got off the bus without it.


    xx

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    by Sarah-Grace 15 October 2009

  • I love those witches..... I play it up even more, if they want to judge me and comment on my life, I'll give them something to comment on. I start talking all chav/ned and just acting like a stereotype young/useless mum LOL
    At the end of the day I know my girls are well cared for, so the rest can get to F***.

    Me and you both know how great a mum you are so don't even waste any time thinking about it hun :)
    xxx

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    by 15 October 2009

  • yea ano, just annoyed me so much!

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    by chrissy_86 15 October 2009

  • old people are the worst aren't they! When i was pregnant i was 14-15 and i had to get a bus to school for 34 weeks before i got cabs for free....huge hill to walk up, nightmare! No one ever stood up for me on the bus so one day i decided i wasn't going to put up with peoples rudeness anymore, stood in the middle of the bus and said very loudly "which one of you extremely rude, ignorant people is going to stand up for this heavily pregnant person?" Low and behold nearly everyone stood up and as much as i embaressed myself i felt much better for sticking up for myself.
    Another time I took my daughter on the bus and 2 old ladies found it their business to tell me the temperature outside, yeah erm thanks?! Then i realised why when i heard them whispering she wasnt wearing a hat scarf or gloves- i listened for a while, and they jus kept finding things wrong about my parenting that they had seen all of 5 minutes of so i said something like she doesnt need a hat i put her hood up when we get off, im not going to put a scarf on her so i can strangle her to death and her mittens are in my bag, they went very red and didnt speak for the rest of the bus journey.

    Sometimes when i hear people talking about me i say things really loudly like oh Ash (my daughter) shall we go in that pub over there for a pint of beer, then give them a really dirty look and they just look away, i dont need to prove myself i know im a great parent but i do wish we wouldnt get stereotyped, look at all the people who are 30 and their children get put into care cos they're not looked after properly, we still have our children!!!! :@

    We should all go on tv and have a go at the world!

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    by LittleMumma 16 October 2009