Right so here is the story, I was with my ex for 4 months I got pregnant after we had been together for 2 months and when I told him he almost had a heart attack and he became really distant and things got all awkward between us. We broke up on New Years Eve ( great way to start the new year ) and we just stopped talking completely he said he didn't want anything to do with the baby etc... Which I cam to accept but then he really pissed me off and I knew he had not told his mother I was pregnant so I sent her a letter telling her I was and then ever since then he has wanted to get back with me and be in the baby's life and he keeps going on about how much he loves me etc... now I am happy to have him in the baby's life infact I would be so happy if he was! BUT there is this other guy, I have not known this guy for long but I really think I like him, he lives a bit far from me but he comes over on weekends and he wants to be involved in the baby's life and has said that if we are still together in 5 months then he wants me to move in with him. Now my ex "can;t" give me any money ( yet he has money to go on holiday :/ ) and this other guy who seems to love me so much is willing to literally bend over backwards for the baby and I. I have no idea what to do! I feel I should be with my ex because he is my baby's dad but still :/ Plus the other guy I like has a teeny tiny B.O problem 
I am trying to sort it out But yeah that is everything can anyone please help me?! I hope this hasn't been to confusing and I really would be grateful for any help I could get!! x x x
by lulumummytob 19 January 2012
Hunny i think you should talk to both of them and see exactly what they want from you and all sorts then make the right decision for you.... i know it aint hard because if you choose to stay with the other guy then your baby's father maybe get distant again ,x
by LilyMamma12 19 January 2012
I think you should remember that your ex didn't want anything to do with your baby and whats to say he won't change his mind again once the baby is born!? Although you do have to think about the baby seeings it daddy, you also have to remember you deserve to be happy as well and if the other boy makes you happy then you should be with him!
If the ex decides that you being with this other boy means he can't see his child then I would say he needs to grow up a little and realise being a father and your boyfriend are two different things! x
by NicoleLepage 20 January 2012
@LilyMamma12 Well the guy I am with now really loves me and I think he must be a great guy if he is willing to be with me since I am pregnant and he wants to be involved in the babys life! Plus he has a job and is willing to help me pay for stuff unlike the father!
@NicoleLepage He won't change his mind again because his mum would kill him and his mum is bloody scary! I want to baby to see it's dad hence why I do not want to burn the bridge I have with him! Yeah I guess thank you! I just want my boyfriend and the baby's dad to get on like my dad and step dad do because they are quite good friends! Oh why is nothing ever simple :/ x x x
by lulumummytob 20 January 2012