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hey, my babys dad can be such an arse lol, we are still together and have been together for nearly 2 years and i have never met his family as he wont let me and now he wont let our little girl meet them either. they live 4 hours away from where i live as he is at uni where i am and goes back regularly i dont know if hes even told them about her but everytime i bring it up he changes the subject or shouts at me anyone else had problems and how did you solve it? x

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by xxxxemzxxxx 17 October 2009

  • hey hope your ok seems a bit strange that he changes the subject when you mention his family....
    try sitting down to him and saying how you feel and why wont he let you meet his family? there must be a reason and if he kicks off explain that it would great for your little girl to have all her family in her life ( thats if you havent tried this allready) good luck xxxxxx

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    by mummy-to-Zak 18 October 2009

  • hey that defintly seems strange!
    and you should really try speak to him! if he hasnt told his parents then they are missing out on meeting there grandchild! maybe his scared they wont b happy, try and tell him how important it is for your little girl to know her family!
    i hope you can work it out!! xxxxxxxx

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    by teresacharl 19 October 2009

  • Sounds very strange. You need to talk to him and find out why he won't let you meet them and find out if they actually know about you or the baby. Good luck, hope it all works out xxx

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    by mumof2 20 October 2009

  • Sounds crazy, that your little girl has not met his family (her grandparents)! I'd say this is something serious you really need to speak to him about! How can you even be sure he's told them about you/your daughter if he won't speak to you about them? :( He sounds like an arse definitely!

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    by tasha41 3 November 2009

  • I don't think it's good to deprive your child of their grandparents. My boyfriend moved in with me and my family a week before my due date. (His mum and dad aren't together) After our son was born Lewis (daddy) was put in a position in which his parents make him choose each other. If one of them saw our little one, then Lewis apparently didn't appreciate the other parent. This has resulted in Kenzie-James not seeing his grandmother and on the rare occasion he does see her, he has no idea who she is, and won't even cuddle her.

    Does he have problems with his family? I advise that you sit him down and tell him that it's your little girl that is missing out. Or maybe try to contact his parents? (I had to make contact with my OH's dad, by taking our little one to see him. Then he realised what he was missing, and now they have a bond)
    I know how stubborn men can be about it. Just remind him he's a daddy now :)

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    by Charleeey 4 November 2009