Hi, im sure alot of people are in the same sort of situation that im in, i was with my sons dad for a month or so when i fell pregnant, and although we were both shocked we were also happy. Everything was fine up until my son Kye was 6months old, i had an argument with his mum and we split up.
He see's Kye every so often, but his recently gone 7months since he has seen him.
He cant seem to seperate me & him from Kye & him, if im not telling him i love him or saying i want too get back with him then he doesnt seem too want too know Kye.
I guess what im asking is what should i do?? Should i carry on making the effort too ask him when his goina too see his son like i have been doing or shall i leave it upto him knowing he wont see Kye for a long long time???
Any help greatly appreciated. x
by NataleighEll 13 January 2010
I think you should stop saying come round and see your son, he is a father and he should know his responsiblities...he is the one going to miss out not you or your son...you will soon enough find another father figure i guarentee it
if then he realises the difference between you and Kye then by all means don't stop him but you shouldn't have to make his effort for him. He needs to undertsand.
by MissKirsty 15 January 2010
i think you need to stop telling/asking him to go see his son,
and he sould live upto his responsibilities and go see him becpse he wants to not cos someone is asking/telling,
if he doesn't come then he obveasly doesn't want to then he misses out .
by babymuma1 18 January 2010
I agree with the above comments... Im due in just under 3 weeks, the same as u i fell pregnant early in the relationship and we split up when i was 4 months gone. He then went 8 weeks without askin how the baby was or how appointments went untill i sed something it caused a big arguement but then he started askin then 2 weeks later he stopped again.. this happened loads of times n just before xmas i asked him to care again but again it caused an arguement. The only way i cud get through to him was through his sister who i dont like as she questioned wether the baby is even his... He has just this week started asking again after yet another row. And ive said that was the last time. if he doesnt keep in contact that would be his fault and if he has nothing to do with the baby i will explain to the child when he is old enough to understand... which is what i think u now need to do... Good Luck xxxxx
by Baby-Brist 19 January 2010