WHY ARE LADS SO HORRIBLE WHEN THEY FIND OUT YOU'R PERGNANT?
i used to b with the babys dad now i am not,he does to b truth full now send me texts askin how i am n how the bump is (as i am nearly due the baby) but when i first found out i was pregnent he did not want to know, thoguh i had been sleeping with lads when i was out drinking in the pub toilets,then his family get involved and call me all the slags and stuff like the, then he asked for a dna test for the bairn to prove that its is his and when i says no he said he would fight me, all the way to get it then if the bairn is his he will try and get the bairn off me,i dont get it he works nearly everyday,accept a sunday and monday,WHY DO ALL LADS HAVE TO B ARSEHOLES???..........
i wud say most men can be arseholes, but if i was u i wud let him do da dna test it will stop him sayin u slept around if it is his, but if it is not his den he will be out of u and ur babys life and u wont hv 2 worry bout takin da baby away from u if it isnt his.
but i do think it is best 2 do da dna test jus 2 prove him worng if u no he is da daddy. hope dis helps. xxxxs
by littlemonkey 4 June 2010
I would say do the dna test jus to keep him quiet, but i wouldnt worry bout him takin the baby off u, unless ure an unstable mother, which i doubt u will be, then the courts always favour the mothers. My sister-in-laws sons dad (she is not with him anymore, they split wen she was pregnant aswell) always used to throw threats like that at her aswell wen she was pregant an wen he was first born, but it didnt last very long, an he was seein him once a month, she has jus stopped him now, coz he wont do more than once a month an doesnt pay maintenance, so he is clearly not bothered! I hope it all gets better for u, dont let em get u down, tbh they dont sound very nice, fully grow adults calling u a slag!! disgusting, ure better of without!! x x x
by kerry 4 June 2010
I'd let him do the DNA test hun. If you know the baby is deffinately his then tell him he has to pay for it xxx
by ryansmummyuk 4 June 2010
Yer tell him if he wants to pay for one, then sure, its up to him if he wants to waste his money lol.. I hate when guys do that! my friends baby daddy did the same thing! what a pr*ck!
by alisha-x 8 June 2010