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Like many others have said the pain of childbirth is only temporary but the pain of losing a child is with you forever, I suffered a miscarriage and the pain of knowing I had lost my baby then nearly drove me mad but to get to having your baby and then lose it must be absolutely unbearable and I don't think the advert portrays it at all correctly xxxxxx

Ive never lost a baby but i have always been terrified of cot death even before i got pregnant. The thought of my baby dying makes me wanna die. I think its the most painful thing anyone could ever experience. x

i havent lost a child but if i lost my son i think it wold be the most painfullest thing ever. i went throgh 30 hours of labour at 15 aswell

for me i've experienced more pain that child birth .. don't get me wrong its definatly right up there! butttt after i had Josh i had a complication where my placenta just wouldn't budge, and i had a Dr forcing there hand/arm up into my womb and try to rip it out, now that pain (for mee) was worse than labour - and she wouldn't stop .. my boyfriend said he never seen me in soo much pain even though i had just been in labour, and it went on like this for 5hours.. ouch.com! but i would go though it a millions times over again & again for hours & hours for my little man! worth every second! :) xxx

I also agree wiv tasha!

I'd hate to lose my son, just thinking about it makes me sad. Amanda, I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I hope that you don't feel guilty as it was most certainly not your fault! I cried when I read your story!

childbirth is painful but it is barable, i was lucky i was only in labour for 2 hours and i just about managed so im not sure if i was in labour longer if i would of been able to do it without pain relife im not sure but wat i do no is i cnt remeber the pain now so its all worth it

i was in labour for 15 hours and 29mins and it was painfull but the result after is amazing it was the greatest day and the best feeling ever x

i cant wait till i give birth bit worried but i cant wait till the result after it lol

I thought labour was suprisingly okay & would have done it again straight away, it really wasn't that bad! The longest 29hours of life but not the hardest i'm sure. I could never imagine loosing a child nor would i EVER like to experience it xx

I think everyones different, and no situation will be the same especially with something so special as child birth.. People always try freak you out tell you its the worst thing ever that they've never felt pain like etc.. But then look at the gift your blessed with after, surely its worth it. Besides there are some people that have quite alright labours, were everything runs smoothly its just depends :).

I think quite a few stories you hear when you are pregnant are from people trying to scare you i dont hink it was to bad i will say its the worst pain ive had but the contractions felt for me like a really bad period pain and then when i had gas and air and diamorphene that was it until i had to start pushing that was hard work but it was just like a burning pain.. id deffo do it all again .

I forgot the pain as soon as my daughter was placed in my arms... the most painfull thing I had was thry to pee after wards because it stung like a bitch cos i had a graze

i get worried about Labour sometimes, but that gift you get at the end. It's obvious it's worth it, that tiny baby that is a part of you, that you have felt and carried and fed for the past few month, you can now see and hold it. You and you're baby have been stuck together like glue for the past few months eating at the same time, and playing games from inside and outside your stomach.. it's sooo going to be worth it!

ChildBirth. hmm. the Pushing her out i do it all again But the contractions were the horriblest pains EVERRRRRRR. that heavy pain pushin down on your bum OMDZ!!. lol its funny cos when your childs born the pain goes away and your like. er ok thanks pain LOL. and to be honest labour aint has bad has girls make it out to be.

it is painfull but look what you get out of it? i would do it 10times over if i had to knowing now wht i would ahve out of it!

Childbirth is the most physical pain i have ever been in!!! Nothing compares to it!

I don't remember much of childbirth it was painful but holding her made me forget, finding out Lola had in a hole in her heart was worse, losing her would be unbearable. Labour pain, and The death of a child can never be compared.

apparently having a tooth pulled out but ive done neither so im not sure lol ill let u no :)

The pain of childbirth is so tempory, once you have your baby in your arms it doen't seem to matter anymore, else you would never wish do it again. comparing something so rewarding to the loss of a child is a bit short sighted, its a loss you carry forever.

The pain of childbirth is so tempory, once you have your baby in your arms it doen't seem to matter anymore, else you would never wish do it again. comparing something so rewarding to the loss of a child is a bit short sighted, its a loss you carry forever.

i agree with everyone! i dont know how they can compare the pain of child birth to losing a baby! i dont think they really thought this through at all

i havent gave birth to my first yet, but i k ow once i have him/her in my arms the pain i will forget, i would hate to even think about the fact of loosin a child, even tho it does happen to people out there.

yes child birth is painfull but i would go thru in a million times rather tham lose my child! no one wants to lose their child it the worst possible thing on earth that could happen to someone

I completely agree with you all, it is an attention catching advert, but the impact its undoubtably going to have on parents who have lost children is unthinkable. Although I haven't seen it around too much. The only times i have seen it is when doing research for cot death and on here. I do think they could have come up with something less traumatising for parents though...

nothin is as painful as loosing a child

i havent lost a baby so dont know the actually feeling but I KNOW FOR SURE it will be alot more painful than labour ... i just hope that i never will no that is my worst fear!

I think this is a horrible advert and will bring painful memories back to alot of people who watch it ut at the same time it will hopefully raise awareness to those who don't know everything about sids and make them more aware of how the risk can be reduced. x

I agree with Tasha!

I totally agree with Tasha and Amanda..... to go through the labour pains everyday of your life can't compare to the pain of losing your own child. The death of your child is unthinkable and in the 'perfect world' would be something NO mother would ever have to go through!

I agree with Tasha. Who ever thought up the idea for that obviously hasn't got kids or lost one themselves.

There is no comparison to loosing a child, nothing could possibly hurt more than that

I wuld go through childbirth a million times over, if it meant I could have my son back.

i also agree with tasha, well said xo

I totally agree with Tasha!

I don't like it. Maybe it will have a better impact on people without children. Childbirth is painful but you forget the pain. It is a happy, exciting experience, a labour of love.. not sure how I can sit back and dare to compare the pain of childbirth to the pain of losing a child.