I'm 5 months pregnant and finding it really hard to be possitive about after she's born. Any helpful suggestions/stories???
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Hi I wouldnt worry one bit I went through stages of feeling down, everyone was telling me id feel this connection and love for my baby while I was pregnant and I didnt it made me feel like a bad mum. But that changes as soon as your bundle is born. Everyone and I mean everyone is scared at some point if not all the way through pregnancy and it doesnt stop there. Take your time, take a breath it will be fine, and if you still feel you are struggling there is so much help out there for you trust me xx
@katykats1993 You might have pre-natal depression hun, i suggest you go to the doctors and tell them how you're feeling.
Being a mummy is the best feeling in the world even at the worst of times. You only need one little smile or hug from them and everything seems better 
Some women find it hard to "love" their baby before it's born but as soon as you see their tiny little face it all seems worth it!
What are you worrying about? Housing, money, coping? If you give some more details we can give you more advice 
But trust me it will all be ok xxx
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Hi I wouldnt worry one bit I went through stages of feeling down, everyone was telling me id feel this connection and love for my baby while I was pregnant and I didnt it made me feel like a bad mum. But that changes as soon as your bundle is born. Everyone and I mean everyone is scared at some point if not all the way through pregnancy and it doesnt stop there. Take your time, take a breath it will be fine, and if you still feel you are struggling there is so much help out there for you trust me xx
by amandabirket 16 July 2010
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